Hey everyone i wanna know if anyone has gone threw something like this i myself have i was with my ex since i was 15 we dated for 10years we were even engaged. I went overseas with my family for a month things were great when i left but when i got bk he was acting very strange and in the ended he ended up ending it with me(even though it seems he was cheating on me with this other girl) but to this day he never gave me unexplanation or the truth as to what the reason was. Anyway to get bk to what happened next my so called best friend at the time she was there threw it all i cried to her and rang her for advice and support threw out the break up what happened next totally threw me she took me out to dinner one night everything was fine until we left the restaurant she told me she needed to tell me something. She ended up telling me there in the carpark that she had feelings for him and that they had been seeing alot of eachother and spending alot of time together. I of course have not spoken to her ever again after that night(She tried msging me a few times and even msged me after my father passed to tell me she was there for me lol if i neededa friend) they started dating a few days after that night even though i feel there was alot more to it a year later they had a little girl .Its weird but to this day i still feel so hurt and so betrayed by her cause i really was blindsided even though i have moved on since then i now to have a little boy and im so happy with my partner but it always still plays in my mind how shaddy they both were and i don't trust as easily as i once use to especially with friends i dont even really have many at all anymore.