How would you take this?
Someone sees your most recent weight loss progress shot and reads where you mention your flabby arms and how you want to tone them but are scared of getting any sort of visible muscle. They comment (something along hte lines of, not direct quote): "You definitely just need to start exercising," and then gives advice about how to.
I don't think this person is nasty, but I don't know how to interpret it.
Is it, "You NEED to start exercise, because you look like you could really do with it!" or "You don't really need to lose much more, just tone up a bit really."
I'm unsure what I feel about the comment (on my blog) tbh... because I dunno how it's meant. I'm sure the person doesn't mean anything maliciously either way because I'm fairly certain she's a nice person, but because I'm not sure of intent, it's bothering me. lol. Yes, I am bothered by trivial things... part of having an anxiety disorder. I worry over dumb stuff.
So help show me how it's meant to be taken so I can get over it already... lol.