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    I just need someone who is a genuine, kind person. Which is my DP.

    He's the only one who hasn't treated me like utter rubbish.

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    respect
    sharing of responsibilities
    love
    honesty
    fidelity
    support of one another

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    Respect.
    Affection.
    Appreciation.

    I would not be with a person that did not give me these things in a relationship.

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    I think women and men need the above, but as individuals sometimes we need some things more than others.
    All up I think everyone within a relationship needs to be considered and respected.

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    I agree with Bell & Bug. Both partners need to be nourished in a relationship whether male or female.

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    I agree that the needs of individuals will differ. I know that perhaps my main need is to be heard. I need to feel like I am being listened to, properly. I need that more than anything else tbh.

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    For me it's spending quality one on one time together-no tv, no distractions, just us.....

    Has anyone read the book "the five love languages" ?? Talks about how different ppl "speak" different love languages, and if your partner understands which "language" you are, and vice versa, you can then make more of an effort to "speak" in each others language....( the languages are things like physical touch, or being told you're loved, or being shown you're loved with acts, etc etc) - it's a good book!

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    Quote Originally Posted by GothChick View Post
    Respect.
    Affection.
    Appreciation.

    I would not be with a person that did not give me these things in a relationship.
    I agree with this. However I also need a strong mutual attraction and someone with the same warped sense of humour as mine I can honestly say DH is the funniest guy I've ever met. Nobody makes me laugh the way he does and I've come to really depend on that.

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    I just need to feel loved, I will do everything for my partner as long as I feel loved to be loved is not enough I have to feel it.

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    Consideration tops my list.

    I think everything else falls under that umbrella to an extent, loyalty, respect, affection..

    I feel comforted knowing that he will consider me before doing something that will affect us/me.


 

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