First time poster! My husband and I have been married for several years and over this time we have had conversations about starting a family but it never seemed like the right time... financially or professionally, health wise or we're planning a vacation etc. SO - hence my username - paralysis by analysis!! There is also so much you seem to need to know about babies and parenting!! It's overwhelming.
We are now in our 30's and I can't say that I've ever dreamed of having a children, I was waiting for that 'ticking clock' that you hear about but it's not arrived.
My husband is a planner - so an accidental pregnancy would simply never happen so recently we decided we would just go ahead and try to have a baby sometime this year.
I'm interested to hear from other people - how did you decide to have a baby? We're you always wanting children or did you get more excited about parenting after you conceived?
AND possibly controversially - do you have any regrets about the timing of your pregnancy?
Looking forward to hearing your thoughts/ reflections...