ok so everytime step daughter comes over she has terrible nits and we spend every holidays getting rid of them and send her back home with all prevention stuff which doesnt get used so the nits just come back and the next holidays we have to get rid of them again. Anyway after talking to step daughters mum i asked if it was ok to cut and dye her hair the same colour as it helps keep them away. she said yes so we went and did her hair the same colour and put 4 foils in it as well. it looks gorgeous and step daughter is super happy. Anyway step daughter left last week (and I am missing her sooo much) and i ring her today to see how she is and asked her how mum liked her hair and she said mum likes it but is going to take her and dye the foils bright purple and pink for school. am i being selfish for being upset? it almost feels like she is just trying to one up on the coolness factor for her. i discussed it with her and got her permission before dying it and she was fine with it but now is just going to die over the foils.
am i being selfish?