My partner and I found out 3 weeks ago that we were expecting our first child. It wasn't planned, but settling down and having a family was something we both wanted and had already spoken about.
At first he was shocked, but after the first day that turned into excitement and happiness. He was too eager to wait the 12 weeks before telling his family and friends.
Now however, 3 weeks on, he's gone through a roller-coaster of emotions. Being angry, rude, unsupportive, annoyed. And finally now finishing on depression. He's unhappy, bored, sulky and is taking his mood out on me with nasty comments and a cold shoulder.
He refuses to believe that at 6 weeks i could have any fatigue or nausea and i feel like i have no support or sympathy from him for what i am also going through.
Im really stuck with him, every day he comes home upset and angry about something new. Im tired and defeated by him and just want his happy positive self back, but I'm lost for ideas and feel the burden is too much for me right now.
I've suggested he speaks to someone, even just a friend, but he's too stubborn. I cant take his moods anymore and am starting to feel like i want a break from him till he sorts himself out, but i don't want to seem like i don't care about how he's feeling at the same time.
What do i do?!