I wear both. But was told the wedding ring shoud be closest to my wrist if that makes sense?
Because you don't wear your engagement ring when you get married and once your wedding ring is on theroritcally it shouldn't come of. (I take my rings off when I am at home though alot of the time)
I would defintately get teh ring that matches - then you have options. Or you coudl always wear them on different hands?