Hi not sure if i am in the wright place but i am really concerned about my mums new relationship.
Mum is 50, she divorced my dad 7 years ago and has recently started a new relationship with a guy she goes to church with, she said they would take it slowly & see where it goes from there.
now just 3 1/2 weeks later he has asked her to marry him & she said yes! most of my family including me have not met him yet & she told me they will not tell anyone else about the engagement until all the family has met him.
my concern is that she is seeing all the sparks and good stuff & none of the bad stuff, i dont believe you can really know a person after just a couple of weeks.
I am really happy for my mum that she has finally moved on & that he is making her happy, its all i ever want is to see her happy & not so lonely, all she does is talk about him.
Because mum is religious, she does not believe in sex b4 marriage and he has agreed to wait, is this why they are moving so fast?
He is also 20 years her senior, which i dont care about but worry that they wont have a long relationship and mum will be heart broken when he dies.
i Have told my mum i am concerned about it moving to fast & she said they are gonna take it slow....getting engaged is anything but slow...