*TMI* Difficulty Reaching The Big O - Breastfeeding/Postpartum

[MRR1006]

My libido ABSOLUTLY died when I was 6 months UTD and before DD got here we only dtd a few times to try and help bring on labour iykwim and (TMI!!!) we dtd last night for the first time since she was born (she's 5 weeks old) and it still took me a while to get going iykwim. I think it's hormones and somewhat (possibly only me) trying to get over the trauma of the internals I had and things now going 'up there'

[MRR1006]

Sorry I deviated from the OP's question. But we to have to try every trick in the book for me to get off
Lol
It's frustrating but we eventually got there. Even tried some new stuff in the process

[lebrishqt]

oh yeah. I'm so tired at night, and being winter, once I'm laying down under those covers nothing will motivate me! We are down to DTD about once or twice a week which is SOOO not like us! We've never NOT had it this much! I am feeling abit sad reading the OP's original question as I was praying once bubs is out and I am healed as such that we could get back into it

I'm assuming DTD means 'Do The Deed' or 'Doing The Deed' or 'Did the Deed'? lol just confirming... Yerh we still do it every night LOL but I just don't really enjoy it all that much... and I feel like it might create a negative association for me which I don't want!

[MRR1006]

I'm assuming DTD means 'Do The Deed' or 'Doing The Deed' or 'Did the Deed'? lol just confirming...

Haha I use it as do/doing the dirty

[lebrishqt]

Sorry I deviated from the OP's question. But we to have to try every trick in the book for me to get off
Lol
It's frustrating but we eventually got there. Even tried some new stuff in the process

after multiple session attempts? or in the one go? lol just curious

[lebrishqt]

Haha I use it as do/doing the dirty

Oh okay LOL funny

[MRR1006]

after multiple session attempts? or in the one go? lol just curious

Over a couple of sessions lol

[MRR1006]

after multiple session attempts? or in the one go? lol just curious

A couple of sessions

[Chew the Mintie]

Totally normal! If it's any consolation it's not permanent and also I've experienced it less and less with each child!