Just wondering whether there is anyone else out there who has experienced this.
I gave birth (vaginally with epidural, no tearing) 5.5 months ago and am pretty much exclusively breastfeeding (with a tiny bit of solids now).
I am finding it really difficult to reach The Big O (if ya know what I'm saying). Before birth, I found it relatively easy to get there and s3x always did it for me without hassle. Now it's SUCH hard work and SO frustrating! My favourite position doesn't work anymore, my mental "image bank" doesn't work anymore. Doing it for myself is equally as difficult.
My pelvic floor is fine, I don't think that's an issue as there is more than one way to skin a cat, and all ways are equally frustrating, if you get me.
The most annoying this is that my s3x drive is, if anything, INcreased! So I want it but it's a mission to get!
Could it be hormonal because of breastfeeding? I know BFing changes your hormone balance... Has anyone else experienced this? Will it go back to normal when I stop BFing? Or am I doomed to a lifetime of frustrating s3x????