Sometimes I want it and DH doesn't, sometimes he wants it and I don't. We don't pressure each other and there's no way I'll just lie there to keep him happy - and I wouldn't want him to do that either. I find it creepy that a guy that knows his partner isn't in the mood yet pressures her anyway... isn't the whole point to sex in a committed relationship to make each other happy?
I refuse to apologise to DH if I'm not in the mood nor does he need to apologise. We are sexually compatible but it doesn't define our relationship.OUr relationship is defined on so much more than that.