Ohh I can relate to most of these
Being told to relax is the worst one. Even when people know that I don't ovulate and we've been going through fertility treatment... Apparently 'not stressing' is all it takes to fix everything.
Similarly, the stories about "My friend did IUI/ IVF and it never worked, and then they stopped trying and conceived straight away. I think it was because they just relaxed about it all."
Friends who don't know what to say, and shut you down when you try to talk about it.
People who say "It's so crazy how it happens. I got pregnant within a millisecond of thinking the word 'pregnant', and then there are others for whom it takes a long time..."
The over analysing/ googling of every 'pregnancy symptom' in the 2ww.
Life being on hold. E.g., can't book a holiday as I might be 'newly pregnant' and not wanting to fly at that point in time. Had to cut back on gym/ PT on advice from FS.
The fear that it might not happen.
Other people airily insisting that all will be fine, when no one can know.
I could go on and on (and on), but I will spare you, and I'm kind of making myself cry.