Any advice on this one? Dh is right handed and needs to have back to back reconstructive hand surgeries on his right hand. He is usually very hands on with our 6 week old dd and after surgery will not be able to use the hand at all for a month He can't do it before April and can do it for about 18 months after that.
I was thinking it might make sense to do it before dd is 6 months so she won't be crawling yet and won't be on solids (exclusively bf'ing now). I may be totally wrong though, and it will be magically easier when she is one year (for example). (No family help so will probably try to hire a bit of help.)
What would you do?