We have been with our current FS now for just over 18 months and done 7 stim cycles with him. I went through a phase where I was very disappointed with him in terms of trying different cycles, but for the past few cycles he has been happy to try different things. But we have come to the point of being advised to go down the donor track, so I would like to get a second opinion. But in saying this I have been expecting the 'donor' talk for a while as it appears that our egg quality is quite litterally '****e'. Our current FS has also suggested that he put his feelers out to see if he can find a donor for us as soon as we confirm that we are prepared to head down this path.
The second opinion is not so much to confirm the qhole donor issue but to see if they have any suggestions for our last cycle that we will do with our eggs.
So knowing that I will probably still do our next cycle with our current FS (and give him the go ahead to source a donor for us) and we have an appt with a second FS in February and need to get a copy of our history to the new fs - do I tell the current FS we are getting a second opinion or just send a letter to his office requesting a copy of our file be sent to the new FS? Do I also need to get a copy of my history from the IVF clinic also?