We're a little different to you though. You see, DH was married (separated) when I asked him out on a date...I knew his ex wife before I knew him. Anyhoo, we were engaged 3 months later and then married 1 year after our first date. We started TTC around 6 months after our wedding and got pregnant on our first try.
We'll be celebrating our 4th wedding anniversary in November and our boy is about to turn 2, we both have daughters from previous relationships. I even counsel the father of my daughter on his relationships . We don't own our own home, we don't have a lot of money and don't drive a fancy car - but everyone we know see us as a successful couple, because we are .