I was out having lunch with a some friends and DH, and mentioned that I was having my first ultrasound next week. My dear best friend was excited for me and asked if she could come with us. I felt put on the spot and said yeah, ofcourse (it was in front of everyone and I just didn't know what else to say).
But both DH and I don't want anyone else there besides the two of us and our son; I feel it's a private occasion, we will be hearing the heartbeat for the first time, finding out crucial info etc, and as much as I love my bestie to death, I just wanted it to be us.
How do I tell her when she's excited about coming? I don't want to embarrass her or hurt her feelings, but don't know what to do