We have been TTC for baby # 2 for 16 months and nothing is happinging. I have PCOS and # 1 came with relative ease. We did nothing but stopped trying to NOT have a baby. However now we are actually trying to have a baby nothing is happening.
I have recently lost 14kgs and I"m about 7kgs from my goal weight, but this has only seemed to make AF more irregular than when I was heavier. Have reduced my caffine/alcohol intake, currently weaning myself to have NO caffine at all - but this is prooving a little difficult. I'm not sure what else I should be doing, am charting my periods and have an app that tells me when my fertile window should be and when I should be ovulating, but I don't know the signs. Even reading them on here I can't register them with me. But I am fairly oblivious to all my body signs, as sometimes my period sneaks up on me with no tell tale signs either.
At what point should I see a doctor for help? I'm also thinking about alternative therapies (acupuncture, chinese medicine, naturpathy etc). With so many to choose from out there and with little knowledge in the area I don't know where to start or at what point I should be asking for assistance. It can also be very expensive and I don't want to be spending good money on a useless option when I could be exploring others.