Something I've seen a lot of on BH is people talking about doctors, midwives, obstetricians etc. performing medical procedures either without asking or, in some cases, despite explicit instructions to the contrary.
Now, I plan on being around for the labour & birth, & my wife has given me pretty clear instructions on what she wants & doesn't want. So I see it as being my 'job' to ensure her wishes are complied with. To the letter.
I'd love to hear from hubbers who are also medical professionals: what's the best way to go about this?
And likewise, from hubbers who've experienced difficulties with medical professionals: do you have any tips (or tales of how not to do it)?
TIA for any advice and suggestions. The thought of someone overriding my wife's decisions on what to do with her body makes my blood boil ...