No worries familyplanner. Sounds like your specialist is doing the right things monitoring wise.
With regards to actually ovulating the big follicle, mine doesn't happen on its own so I have the trigger and they reckon it then pops within about 40 hrs.
I'm certainly not an expert so don't just take what I say - do your own reading and investigations too and of course speak with your fs about your concerns and the fact you don't feel ready for IVF just yet - if you don't? It does have better chances and depending on your circumstances, age, DP sperm issues etc etc it may be the best option for you guys? Oh the stuff we have to go through who knew it could all be so hard. I just want a bubby