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    Some body has really upset me today. I'm on another forum and I admitted that I was jealous of my best friend/ sister in law because she's been able to get pregnant really easily. One part of me is really excited for her and excited that I'm going to be an aunt again but there's a part of me that wishes it was me instead that had gotten pregnant although I would never ever let on to her about it as I wouldn't want to put a damper on her excitement.

    A lady commented that things like that make her sick and there is no place for jealousy or envy in a friendship. I thought these forums were here as an outlet for those feelings that you can't share with family and not a place to be judged. I wish I didn't have those feelings and thoughts in the back of my mind but I can't dispel them. Does that make me a terrible friend??

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    Quote Originally Posted by familyplanner961 View Post
    Some body has really upset me today. I'm on another forum and I admitted that I was jealous of my best friend/ sister in law because she's been able to get pregnant really easily. One part of me is really excited for her and excited that I'm going to be an aunt again but there's a part of me that wishes it was me instead that had gotten pregnant although I would never ever let on to her about it as I wouldn't want to put a damper on her excitement.

    A lady commented that things like that make her sick and there is no place for jealousy or envy in a friendship. I thought these forums were here as an outlet for those feelings that you can't share with family and not a place to be judged. I wish I didn't have those feelings and thoughts in the back of my mind but I can't dispel them. Does that make me a terrible friend??
    Not at all FP. What a horrible person- you are right, I thought these forums were for revealing our darkest feelings that we aren't proud of and can't admit to others.

    You are not a horrible person- you are normal. In fact, not letting on to her that you are upset so as not to take away from her excitement IMO makes you a great friend. Don't let people like this get you down. X

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    Oh FP, don't worry about her, your honesty probably raised some sordid feelings of her own and she didn't like confronting them! Pfft to her!

    I'll be the first to say I am extremely jealous of my brother and sister in-law who just announced another pregnancy a mere 5 months after giving birth to a DS. On the outside I'm smiles and hugs, on the inside I'm screaming out "you selfish twits, you've just had one, why now??? Really?"

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    Oh fp - please dont take any notice of that woman. I bet any money she has never had any troubles conceiving herself and has NO idea how hard it is for us pcos girls. And for ANYONE to say that they would never be jealous if they were trying at the time is absolute b s !! Its people like her that think their s $@ t dont stink and judge other people that make me so mad!! Ive had 2 friends announce recently they fell pregnant in the first or second cycle with their second babies - i can honestly say that im over the moon for them - but of course im jealous and i balled my eyes out the night i found out!! Its called being human!! Forget her comments and know theres a bunch of women on this thread who support you and your emotions/ feelings because they are honest, real feelings!

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    Warning: Rant to follow shortly...

    So, i hate my body. She is a real b $@ ch!! Had my 30 day cycle last round, and testing and temping religiously all month - thinking that i o'd again this month( just on the weekend) and all ready to celebrate and look forward to af in 2 weeks time....

    Now it looks like af is turning up today!! Im like - not even 3dpo!!! What the hell??!!

    Is it possible for it to turn up so soon?? Its more than just spotting...

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    How horrible to have AF show up so early!!! I can't figure out my body either. PCOS is a b@tch and nothing surprises me any more. Hopefully it's just an early implantation bleed and it goes away soon

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shackles View Post
    Warning: Rant to follow shortly...

    So, i hate my body. She is a real b $@ ch!! Had my 30 day cycle last round, and testing and temping religiously all month - thinking that i o'd again this month( just on the weekend) and all ready to celebrate and look forward to af in 2 weeks time....

    Now it looks like af is turning up today!! Im like - not even 3dpo!!! What the hell??!!

    Is it possible for it to turn up so soon?? Its more than just spotting...
    Shackles did AF end up arriving? I hope not!

    Two cycles ago I had a random 22 day cycle, but I didn't ovulate at all. Next cycle around day 18 I though AF was on its way (hadn't ovulated) but she didn't eventuate, then I ovulated, then I got my BFP!

    I hope similar happens to you shackles...

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    Merls have you tested??

    I still have no obvious preg symptoms and I'm 20dpo ( I think I should start saying 4+5!). Now I know I am UTD I recognize symptoms but they are so subtle I would never have noticed them earlier

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    You were quick lol. Thought I deleted that post before anyone seen it. After posting it, the witchy AF reared her ugly head. So CD1 for me, and going home to have some Moscato!

    I know the doc said no "O", but there's always hope.

    She did say though that my M/S will throw my hormones around for a couple of months so here goes another cycle , and more wine for Merls - yeeeheeww!

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    Im so confused. Theres a bit more blood today, but nothing that would warrant a period, but its definitely more than just spotting.. Although my temps plunged today - that should mean definite af shouldnt it? Now my timing for africa will be waaay off. Im so bummed


 

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