Its frustrating I know for now just do what works, every baby is different Do you have an automatic baby swing? We have one and it has been a lifesaver on occassion, not always but a lot of the time. We resulted to using a dummy as well which isnt a bad thing, it worked for us. We also bought a glider chair so i could rock DS to sleep more comfortably.
The first days alone are the hardest and you're sleep deprived so its hard but I promise it will get better. What gets me through is day dreaming about DS starting to sit and crawl, his first steps basically everything that reminds me that I can do it Im living in the NT so I doubt u live close to me lol But if u did I would be there to help
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