I'm really p!ssed with my ex atm. He's a drop kick!!!
Firstly, in January last year our DD got really sick (after playing in flood waters at HIS house with HIM) and ended up in hospitial for 4 days (had the start of blood poisoning) I stayed up with her screaming in pain/with an incredibly high temp/really sick for a week and was absolutely wrecked by the end of it (in that time he only visited her in hospitial twice, for a total of less then 90 mins!) when she got discharged she needed $140 worth of medication, plus a week later needed another $40 worth of medication.. He refused to help us pay for anything. He pays the bare minimum each month and thinks thats enough. ( found out in october he was getting $400 a month child support for his step son, and was only paying around $100 a month for his daughter).
Then, she had a op on her stomach and he didn't see her for 2 weeks (she wasn't allowed at his house, but he wouldn't come to ours/the hospitial to see her), but he again refused to pay for anything.
She has yearly visits with a specialist in a capital city and refuses to help pay for it, she has to have particular shoes and won't get her any, he won't even put the ones we send on her either!
He NEVER pays for anything above what the CSA says he has to pay.
She starts school soon and we asked him over a year ago would he help us pay for her school fees/uniforms and he said yes, but recently he's said no. I'm so annoyed. She is just as much his daughter as mine and he won't help out.
He puts her LAST all the time. it's not fair on her!
Why do some guys act like complete jack@ss's! Don't they realise its THEIR child they are hurting?