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    In 2008 i thought without a doubt I was done having kids. I had 3 gorgeous boys and then my whole life fell apart i i got divorced and until Jan last year i thought i was destined to be a single mother (not that there is anything wrong with that). Then i met my now fiance and we have been trying for a baby for about 9 months and then when i finally fall pregnant i miscarry at 6 weeks and christmas day of all days. we desperately want another baby. Can anyone tell me how long this heartache will go on i am tired of being depressed and moody all the time. i love my little boys more then the world and want nothing more then to give them the brother or sister they would love and cherish. can anyone give me any pointers on how to avoid miscarriage? hopefully i fall pregnant again soon. thanks

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    Melbaxter i am so very sorry for your loss unfortunately I can't tell you how long you will feel like this. I has a missed m/c at almost 12 weeks in Oct and I can honestly say i feel more at peace now but the pain is still there. I suppose it's like saying you have good days and bad days and thankfully the bad days are becoming fewer as time goes on. For me I think about my baby daily but I don't burst into tears everytime someone mentions it or I tell someone what happened. I hope you will feel the same way soon but it is a healing process so take your time to grieve. As for trying again only you will know when you are ready. My hubby and I have started trying again just this month and I though I was ok with it all but last night whilst we were having sex I started to ball. My poor hubby didn't know what to do but yesterday was a bad day for me, i don't know why something just triggered it. I wish there was some guaranteed way to stop us both from miscarrying again but if there is I don't know the answer sorry. The best we can both do is eat well, don't smoke, don't dring and just generally look after ourselves. again i am really sorry you are going through this and I wish you all the best trying again when you are ready.


 

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