Im having a conversation with a friend of mine and I'm really concerned for her. Her and her hubby have been having a fair amount of relationship problems for the last year or so, they haven't been stable at all. She's also having issues of her own, then she springs out that her and DH and going to be TTC in a few months, needless to say I was shocked. She seems to think having a baby will make her marriage better, I tried telling her that perhaps it wont work like that and it might be a good idea to wait until they've sorted out their issues but she wasn't really interested.
I guess what I want to know is has anyone here had a 'band-aid' baby and did it make your marriage better or worse? If you could do it again would you have waited until you'd sorted out your marriage issues? For me I cant even fathom having a baby where I'm doubtful and things aren't going well it seems really stupid.. but I guess that's just my opinion.