1. Does your OH complain about the food you cook? Maybe not so much complain but doesnt fancy what you cook? And asks you to make certain dishes? In particular ones that take a long time to make?
He would complain if I made things he doesn't like, which is a lot. Therefore I guess he doesn't have to request what he wants to eat because he already gets it.
2. How much does your OH "really help" with cleaning. Excluding kids just cleaning/ washing dishes/ laundry that type of thing. I am meaning on a regular basis not just here and there.
No, I can't remember the last time he did the dishes or washing. Might sweep the floor once in a blue moon. I'm a SAHM so its all up to me, always.
3. Do you have "me" time the same amount as your OH. For example your OH goes out once a week with mates does that mean you can do the same without any confrontation from OH and OH staying home looking after kids?
DH doesn't do things with mates really, I think we are even on this one.