1. Does your OH complain about the food you cook? Maybe not so much complain but doesnt fancy what you cook? And asks you to make certain dishes? In particular ones that take a long time to make?
DH used to do most of the cooking, but we ate badly, lots of convenience foods. Now I'm at home a lot more I cook and make better meals. Sometimes he complains but it's warrented - I'm not that great at it yet so I'm usually quietly thinking that it's not great either. Eg. I made apricot chicken a few nights ago, it was complained about, I must of doen something differently because I thought it wasn't as good as usual and unfortunately it's made us both a bit sick.
2. How much does your OH "really help" with cleaning. Excluding kids just cleaning/ washing dishes/ laundry that type of thing. I am meaning on a regular basis not just here and there.
Sort of, only when he's been nagged about the fact that he hasn't done his alloted jobs for the week.
3. Do you have "me" time the same amount as your OH. For example your OH goes out once a week with mates does that mean you can do the same without any confrontation from OH and OH staying home looking after kids?
DH rarely goes out and I go out about once a week or so. He doesn't mind in the slightest, never has.