1. Does your OH complain about the food you cook? Maybe not so much complain but doesnt fancy what you cook? And asks you to make certain dishes? In particular ones that take a long time to make?
No, he would never complain, he even ate the worlds WORST pumpkin soup I made once without saying anything until I cheekily asked if he would like seconds bahaha poor man.
And he doesn't ask me to cook anything in particular, if there is something he really would like he'd cook it for dinner
2. How much does your OH "really help" with cleaning. Excluding kids just cleaning/ washing dishes/ laundry that type of thing. I am meaning on a regular basis not just here and there.
As we both work we do 50/50
Normally if I wash he'll dry, I'll put on a load of washing and he'll hang it out. It's very even. But if I didn't work I would take on more then him.
3. Do you have "me" time the same amount as your OH. For example your OH goes out once a week with mates does that mean you can do the same without any confrontation from OH and OH staying home looking after kids?
Yes, no problems there, but we do prefer to go out together