Just use tampons. They won't leak if changed regularly and you use the right absorbancy. They won't hurt if they are in properly. TMI warning, when First started using them I didnt put them in properly and they hurt and fell out. Make sure when you put it in the you angle it slightly towards your back and push it all the way in. This means also inserting most/all of your finger too.
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