Funnily enough after ages of my mum telling me how bad my grandma is at feeding my cousins crap when she baby sits and me venting to my mum about DFs parents trying to feed jasper crap... Mum gives jasper Cheetos for breakfast, chocolate custard on demand and cake & bickies in between. I told her if she wants to give him treats buy him blue berries cos he loves them and they are too exxy for us most of the time. Though for a while she did listen and started bringing over bananas when they were a million dollars a kilo. But yeah, baffled me she thought it was okay for her but not for others.