Yeah apparently I was mean for not letting inlaws feed jasper sugary crap from 6 months.
Jasper doesn't have a *great* diet though, but I do the best I can with a bit of a fussy eater. I do often now let him go to bed without dinner if he refuses what I've offered, but then he often has a terrible sleep because he's hungry, so I also do try to offer a mix of things he will eat (ie: chicken nuggets) with stuff I want him to wag (veggies) but it depends on how exhausted I am whether I'm prepared to let him go hungry if he's being fussy.
I Do wish I'd never introduced the crap foods in the first place - but then I run it all back through my head... He stopped eating, I got desperate, and it became a bit of 'you can eat whatever you want as long as you eat SOMETHING' (exclusively breast feeding a 1+ year old is NOT fun)