Two nights ago my husband told me that he feels like we are just really good flatmates. He says that I am his best friend and that he still loves me but isn't sure what he wants. He decided this morning that he was going to go away for a night and think things through. I am devastated, hurt, totally didn't see this coming. He is a really good husband and father, I really can't complain about him.
We have a beautiful 5 month old baby who has been rather challenging, but is getting easier as time goes by. I am getting by on very little sleep and have really struggled with the adjustment to motherhood. I don't know how I will cope with this aswell.
We haven't DTD since before bub was born. I have suggested it a few times but he doesn't seem interested. I have felt like he's not physically attracted to me anymore but I wasn't brave enough to ask that in case he said yes. I still have 15kg of baby weight to lose, but now I'm only 75kg at 170cm so I am a little overweight but nothing huge, I'm just not the same as before. The thought has crossed my mind that there's someone else, but I don't think so.
We have been married 5 years but been together for nearly 9. He says he has felt like this for a long time....why didn't he say something before we decided to have a baby??? I have no family or good friends where we live, I don't know what to do.
We haven't argued about this issue, more tears than anything else. I will do anything to make this work. Anyone been through this?
Hope that makes sense, I think I'm rambling.