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    I woudn't label it as cheating but more like a huge betrayal of trust. I would be so angry.

    Your poor friend

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    Its cheating, eventually "most" meet.

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    I've got the same thing ATM

    What to do??!!

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    I think that is discusting behavior for a father. I would be incredibly disappointed in him if that were me. I would feel betrayed.

    I don't know if I would forgive it.

    I probably couldn't.

    I would be seething if I were your friend. He would need to protect his balls while sleeping...

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    Trying to look at it from another angle - it could be a fantasy he's realising through this fictitious woman. Because they don't speak or see each other - purely over text - it is possible he had no intention of taking it any further but was just having his own little fantasy in his own little cyber world which he probably deemed private and non-dangerous. It was probably a rush or thrill for him being involved in the exchange and it was the idea rather than the actual woman that he was talking to.

    Of course when you are married (and find out!) to the person involved it can very hurtful and also damaging to your self esteem (ie why wasn't it ME? Am I not sexy enough? Does he want other woman? Etc). The husband may have felt very silly about the whole thing. I don't think i would leave my husband over it but we would definitely be having a conversation and discuss perhaps his sexual 'slump' if it may be. I would definitely be hurt and it would definitely feel like I was betrayed. He's obviously made a very silly decision that could potentially cost him his family. I dont know the guy you are talking about but I'm just trying to see it from an angle of a guy that was making poor decisions without actually considering the serious precursors to his actions.

    I know if I was serious in an infidelity - I would be deleting the text messages. Perhaps he didn't see it as cheating... Or perhaps he's a bit daft lol

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    Definitely cheating in my books!

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    Quote Originally Posted by mummyof3girls View Post
    I've got the same thing ATM

    What to do??!!
    I'm sorry I don't know the answer, but massive .

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    If you're getting your jollies anywhere else but home, then it's cheatng.

    Who are these sad silly women who'd continue a texing relationship with some one they never met?
    I ask because in the past 4 years my Dh has received 2 of these so called mistaken identity texts.
    The first one he thought was funny, the 2nd he didn't bother to reply to say they had the wrong number, as any chat at all eggs them on.
    It just seems to happen a lot out there.

    Quote Originally Posted by mummyof3girls View Post
    I've got the same thing ATM
    What to do??!!
    Do you mean your Dp is doing the same thing with another woman or that he has just got one of these random texts.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DiamondEyes View Post
    100% yes!
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    This!!!

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