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    Quote Originally Posted by Brent View Post
    Hi Daisy,
    Great term sexting cheating and I think yes it is unfair specially when the man is married and didn't met or saw that women.
    would it have been fair if he had met and saw the woman? .

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    Thank you all so much for your honest replys..
    I meet up with my beautiful friend today..Im so sorry and sad for her..

    What i didnt mention in my previous post ,was this with her DH started when she was pregnant with their 3rd child,she has given birth in that time..
    To me that makes the situation worse.
    She told me today how she already feels frumpy and yukk with baby fat to lose (i think shes beautiful),and now shes feeling even more low and blaming herself for what her DH did.
    She said he used to complian to her that he didnt "get enough"!

    Even though shes trying to make it work..I don think the trust will ever be back...

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    Wow that does make it worse she feels it's a betrayal. She already feels bad about her self image and she was having his baby omg poor thing

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    Hi, to me the betrayal is the cheating part. Not sure if the husband is a bit naive or whether this was what actually occured but here is another take on it. Working girls (a polite term for prostitutes/escorts) look up mobile numbers of tradesmen in their town/city. They call them, send photos etc and then hook them into meeting up in a hotel. They ask for the man to pay for the room/half the room and then they line up 'other tradesmen'in the same way for the same service. So if these working girls get a cheap deal on a hotel room, then see 5 or 6 tradies in a day/night they not only get the hotel for free but also make at least $750-1200 for their days work. It would take a bit of organising but I guess if they were smart they could do alright for themselves. They also continue to text these men to get 'repeat business'. I wonder if this was what happened to your friends husband?

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    Mc Freaking Cheating!!!!

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    That's definitely cheating! Just because it's not physical, it doesn't mean it's not cheating. Sexting definately fits into that category because it plays with the persons fantasies.

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    A woman he has never met... *clears throat* sure sure.

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    I call cheating ar$ehole!
    Who does that? Especially when their partner is so vulnerable?

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    My df still doesn't understand that it is cheating in my books (he's done similar to me). It's definitely not cool.


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    Woopsies

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    Yes

    Inthe past I would've said'no cheating but inappropriate for someone in a relationship'

    Now I say ' anything sexual directed at anyone other then your partner AND if it's something you wouldn't do infront if your OH' us cheating.

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