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    Default Is this cheating?

    Sitting around with friends today it came out that my friends husband has been sending naughty full on text messages(sexting they call it) to a woman he claims he has never meet.
    Apparently she rang,had the wrong number and then text him telling him he sounded "sexy"..Then it all started from there.
    This had been going on for about 4 to 5 months.
    So it came up as to wether we thought he had "cheated" on her..

    I kind of said yes,there were mixed opinions,and all being friends none of us wanted to hurt our friend,so not sure if we were all totally honest with our opinions..Im still trying to decide!

    So what do you think,is sexting cheating?

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    It is crossing a very fine line in my opinion. Very dangerous. Personally I think it needs to stop.


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    Yep. It's emotionally cheating. He is seeking attention elsewhere. Dh and I just talked about it and he agrees.

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    Definitely cheating. The only person he should be communicating that way with is his partner. On the same lines as emotional affair I think also. What says it wouldn't go further if they both had the opportunity?

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    I would class that as cheating!

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    100% yes!

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    My feelings on it are that if my Husband did that he'd be out the door, simple as that.

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    I would consider that emotional cheating and a deal breaker in my marriage

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    YES. No way, would that be even remotely OK. Bad, bad, bad.

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    Cheating in my opinion. It would absolutely be cheating by the standard in my relationship.


 

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