Oh its awful isn't it Jeb i'm the same, i have three friends who got preggers end of last year/early this year on their FIRST try. My SIL and best friend took 2 months for each kid to get pregnant. As hard as it is, it's still lovely to be around children, i'm sure all the little ones in your life will be giving you good vibes. I have a good friend I had coffee with this weekend, who is a terrific chick, very late 30s and still looking for mr right. She was getting so upset because she think's she has lost her chance to have children. Made me feel very fortunate to at least have found a great guy, and to be trying for a child. I am sure we will all get there in the end.
I reckon its better not to tell everyone, then you don't have to tell everyone it didn't work.
So it's not just me then bonbonn. God IVF can be tough! I feel so blooby and gross. I find too, that the stims and even afterwards, make me feel so tired, the last thing i feel like doing is going to the gym. I struggle to walk the dog. Good luck for your FET this week
Bear, congrats on your transfer!! So glad you made it all the way through!