I'm so very sad to hear about this, and cannot imagine the depth of anger, sadness and despair you might be feeling. And although there is never a good timing; finding out yesterday must have been particularly devastating and surreal.
You have received some great advice (particularly from the wonderful Witwicky) and I'm sure many of us in here will continue to extend our support. Where do you live? If you are located near me I would love to give you've hand, an ear and a shoulder.