So here it is. I found out this afternoon my dh has been having an affair on and off for the past 2 years. I found a phone in his car today and whilst I didn't manage to unlock the phone he thinks I did and told me some of whats been going on. He says she is woman I don't know, she's married, has 5 kids and while he doesn't see it going anywhere long term he has decided we can't continue. I am 6 months pregnant and we have a 4 yo son. He wanted this new baby and said he 'wasn't man enough' to break up 2 years ago. He is a great dad but says he's a lousy husband- I tend to agree! I think i'm in shock- haven't cried and I'm not angry just disappointed. He packed a bag, apologised, hugged our son and drove off. I have been cramping slightly since 6pm so am having half a glass of wine to calm myself.
I have been talking to myself as I would a client which is helping but geez I am worried about being able to continue this pregnancy, birthing without him (no way I can do it with him) and I feel so sad for my kids. I can do this: one step at a time. I know plenty of you have been in this situation. Any advice?
Not so happy funnymama