I have a question for all those hubbers who have children of varying ages/various stages in life.
In the same yr Loving6 will have a DD going off to uni and a newborn child?!??!
It's spins me out and I wonder how you get your head around it or if its just an everday part of life that you don't think about?
In my mind I just think of all those yrs/energy put into the first one and then goign you have all that in front of you AGAIN with the newborn - thats along time until you have time to yourself again. But I guess its also alot more yrs of having young children around which is blessings and amazing moments?
BTW - this isn't intentioned as a crack at anyone who does this or doesn't do this - I was just wondering how mentally you process this/feel about it. To me (who doens't have a kid) I imagine having kids one day and devoting myself to them for 20yrs and then reclaiming some of my own life back. Ie. travel/retire etc etc.