This is my first time posting on the bubhub forum.
I lost our first baby back in July, i was meant to be 9w1d and measured at 7w6d (a missed miscarriage). i never understood heartbreak until that day and the days since.
I decided against the D&C and gave the tablets a go, well that failed, i got told at my second consult that due to me not bleeding or cramping the tablets would not have worked.... why not tell me that before i went through it?
During the second consult while doing the U/S the doctor pointed at the screen and said "Theres your uterus and theres your dead baby.....WTF!!!!!!!! who does that?????
We have been trying to conceive for 3mths now, i am getting cramping and some bleeding 4-5 days after our conception dates, also had some tissue discharge back in october. Off to the doctors today, hoping they can figure something out.
The pain will never go away, i'm hoping it just gets lets obvious. On the 10th feb 2012 i should have beenmy due date instead we will be morning the loss of our first child.