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    Girls are b!tches, what does one expect?


    OP if I were you, Id turn down any further attempts and leave him to his life. You can only control you and your life, so dont waste your time meddling in other peoples because all that will bring is more conflict into your own life.

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    Exactly, Bell

    And for the record OP, it's really un-necessary to call some of us fruit (ie bad peaches).

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    You know, I didn't see any real issues with what was being said. You've actually gotten off quite lightly OP - others have been drawn and quartered for this before. You told (by some) that what you did was wrong, and you should own up to that and tell this woman REGARDLESS of whether or not she'd see you as the bad guy. That's hardly unfair or harsh - you knowingly participated in something that was morally wrong, so you've got to own that. One of the consequences of doing something like that, mistake or not, is that you can't pretend you're an innocent in it.

    I couldn't care less what you do - there are pros and cons either way - but don't whinge that people are not molly-coddling you for sleeping with a partnered person.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bell & Bug View Post
    But if the OP were a man, it would be appropriate for us all to line up with our pitchforks and point out the wrongdoings.
    I really have to agree here. Again, the OP has made a mistake, we all make them. But if this was a man posting saying he had slept with his ex wife who had repartnered I believe most people would not condone his actions.

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    I wouldn't change my view if it was a guy making this post.

    Why turn the thread into a "you are a bad person because you slept with your ex who has repartnered" when all the OP was asking for was advice on whether to tell her EX's GF?
    I never once saw the OP saying she hadn't done the wrong thing, that she hadn't felt like cra p for making a mistake, yet almost every poster took it upon themselves to remind her that she was a terrible person for sleeping with him.
    I just found it totally uncalled for, esp. when it became post after post saying the same thing. And so did the OP from reading her most recent replies.

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    Well I will only speak for myself here as I can't speak for others but I never said she was a bad person... and I don't recall anyone else did either. They just disagreed with her actions.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mamasurfs View Post
    I don't want to sound harsh.. but you are also in the wrong here. what were you doing sleeping with another woman's partner when you know what it feels like to be cheated on? You knew they were together, so I think it's pretty dog that you went there in the first place. sure, he's obviously scum & going to cheat on her, but you shouldn't have gone there in the first place.
    Don't say anything, let her figure it out for herself. & remove yourself entirely from this situation.
    Quote Originally Posted by LucyB View Post
    Stay out of it. You're already the bad guy because you shagged her boyfriend behind her back.

    If you tell you run the risk of destroying the civil relationship between you and FOB for parenting purposes.

    Yes she deserves to know but for you I think a workable relationship with FIB for the benefit of your child trumps her right to know.
    Quote Originally Posted by Crazyfamily View Post
    i guess a lot of people (me included) feel that if a woman knows a man has a partner (even if he is your ex) then you just dont go there for any reason. Sorry but you did to her what another woman did to you and that is not ok.
    you need to never ever be alone with your ex again and visitation for your child should involve a quick handover. I have a rule....If you wouldnt do it in front of your partner (or in your case the ex's partner) then it shouldnt be done at all
    Quote Originally Posted by Azurial View Post
    Everyone is calling you the bad guy (that is if its everyone, havent bothered reading the whole thread) because you did to your husbands new gf exactley what she did to you, and when she did it to you you broke up with your husband. You shouldnt have gone there. It was adulteress se.x, its not like you tripped and landed on his wang accidently. Regardless as to the feelings that may still be there between you and your ex you lowered yourself to their standards and did the wrong thing. Sorry but cheating is cheating. If you want everyone to only agree with you then find a forum for cheaters I guess.
    Quote Originally Posted by Bell & Bug View Post
    Mistake or not, what you did wasn't exactly innocent. You aren't the innocent party in all this.
    Now forgive me if I'm wrong, but that is other posters telling the OP she is a bad person?

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    Quote Originally Posted by mrsdj1234 View Post
    Now forgive me if I'm wrong, but that is other posters telling the OP she is a bad person?
    I can only speak for myself, but I was stating that her actions weren't innocent. I did not say she was a bad person.

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