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    Quote Originally Posted by designertaste View Post
    I'm sorry but You ladies have me very upset. I know what I did was wrong. But that's not what I'm on here for, to be the absolute bad person... I'm not an idiot. But I guess this is what happens. My hubby cheats, creates a love child, had 20 affairs and then I stupidly had one night of passion with him and now I'm the worst person. You know what? Thanks ladies! Thanks very much! It's all I needed was to be pushed in the dirt yet again. Fine I'm the worst person ever!!!! Thanks for reminding of that. Im so upset right now, I never wanted this to happen but you know what it did! I needed support and advice but obviously, you ladies just see me as scum!
    If you feel that way then i guess you feel your ex deserves the same consideration??? But if you thought that he wouldnt be your ex would he.

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    So this is what I'm going to do. Tell ExH that he can't have s.ex with me. Keep his GF in the dark that her bf is a cheater. Then slap myself across the face because I'm scum. Thats pretty much the advice I got on here. Thanks

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    Really

    Either tell your EXH to come clean or you will do it for him. Then cut ties, you don't need to be involved in each others lives to keep a civial relationship for your child's benefit.

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    Meh.

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    Calm down. You are being irrational. No one has said anything like what you are claiming.

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    Quote Originally Posted by designertaste View Post
    So this is what I'm going to do. Tell ExH that he can't have s.ex with me. Keep his GF in the dark that her bf is a cheater. Then slap myself across the face because I'm scum. Thats pretty much the advice I got on here. Thanks
    i never siad you are scum. maybe you should re read the advice properly. even if you do just tell the ex it wont happen again and never tell his gf that is fine. At least YOU removed yourself. You can control your actions not the actions of others.

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    Yes I'm very upset, guitly, feel bad, depressed that I have done something so low... I just don't want to be reminded of that. It's just some of you bad peaches put salt in my wound and pushed me down when I'm already down.

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    I'm glad to see the moral police have stepped up and done their job of belittling another woman, who wasn't asking if she had done the wrong thing, she was asking if she should tell her ex's gf.

    OP, I wouldn't tell the gf, because as some have said she's unlikely to believe you and it'll just cause problems with your ex.
    Don't be too hard on yourself for sleeping with your ex. You were married once, and those feelings don't just die because he hurt you and you separated.

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    OMG. This thread just got even more ridiculous...didn't think it was possible.

    There are quite a few pages full of useful, supportive advice. My goodness. What does she want? Hugs and a medal for doing the wrong thing? The world doesn't work like that, sweetheart.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pinkzy View Post
    OMG. This thread just got even more ridiculous...didn't think it was possible.

    There are quite a few pages full of useful, supportive advice. My goodness. What does she want? Hugs and a medal for doing the wrong thing? The world doesn't work like that, sweetheart.
    But if the OP were a man, it would be appropriate for us all to line up with our pitchforks and point out the wrongdoings.

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