So this is what I'm going to do. Tell ExH that he can't have s.ex with me. Keep his GF in the dark that her bf is a cheater. Then slap myself across the face because I'm scum. Thats pretty much the advice I got on here. Thanks
Either tell your EXH to come clean or you will do it for him. Then cut ties, you don't need to be involved in each others lives to keep a civial relationship for your child's benefit.
Calm down. You are being irrational. No one has said anything like what you are claiming.
Yes I'm very upset, guitly, feel bad, depressed that I have done something so low... I just don't want to be reminded of that. It's just some of you bad peaches put salt in my wound and pushed me down when I'm already down.
I'm glad to see the moral police have stepped up and done their job of belittling another woman, who wasn't asking if she had done the wrong thing, she was asking if she should tell her ex's gf.
OP, I wouldn't tell the gf, because as some have said she's unlikely to believe you and it'll just cause problems with your ex.
Don't be too hard on yourself for sleeping with your ex. You were married once, and those feelings don't just die because he hurt you and you separated.
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OMG. This thread just got even more ridiculous...didn't think it was possible.
There are quite a few pages full of useful, supportive advice. My goodness. What does she want? Hugs and a medal for doing the wrong thing? The world doesn't work like that, sweetheart.
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