you need to never ever be alone with your ex again and visitation for your child should involve a quick handover. I have a rule....If you wouldnt do it in front of your partner (or in your case the ex's partner) then it shouldnt be done at all
Nobody has called you awful. We said what you did is awful. I mean let's face it, there aren't many acts lower than that .
Nobody has called you a dog. They said your actions were those of a dog. And let's be honest OP, it's true.
I agree with Crazyfamily's sensible, grown up advice. I'd personally take it.
Mistake or not, what you did wasn't exactly innocent. You aren't the innocent party in all this.
Last edited by Guest1234; 29-12-2011 at 15:09.
I think you're being very defensive and irrational, OP.
What did you want?? sympathy? gratification for your actions? Come on .
There's been some very supportive, open minded and honest advice given to you in this thread. Hell, I think I even saw one hubber send you a hug.
I don't think you're scum, you made a mistake. But I think you need to understand that others find it hard to understand why you would do this to another woman when he has done it to you. He is obviously a serial cheater and you knew that when you lay down with him.
Anyway, I'm not going to kick your further while your down. Learn from this, and never do it again. Clearly he lies whenever his mouth moves.
Good luck to you
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