Hoping for some advice please. I never set out to be a 'co-sleeper', but my 18 month old DS had slightly different plans for us. For the past two months he starts his sleep off in his cot, but generally comes into our bed at about 11. I love the closeness of our sleeping arrangement, but it really stresses me out from a safety perspective. Mine & DP's pillows are my main concern - we both have as little pillow on the bed as possible, but i still have this fear of him suffocating. I wake multiple times each night in a panic over this, so keen to hear information/advice on how to do this safely.