Hi everyone i could really use some help my DS is 10 months old and he uses a dummy and sleeps with me but there not the problem. My problem is i am his sleeping aid. Every time he goes to sleep he needs to hold my arm or hand, or finger. I have tried to give him a soft toy instead but he just throws it away and sooks for me. I will try a soft toy again but am hoping for some help and ideas from anyone willing to contribute as i don't think it will work.