My 2 DDs are driving me insane, they never listen when told to do something and constantly fight and argue!!! I'm 31 weeks pregnant with baby #4 and I'm honestly too tired to deal with them anymore!!! The lounge room is always a mess and so is their room as they pull everything out and won't listen when I tell them to clean it up. My almost 4 yr old dd has a need to change her clothes about 5-8 times a day in turn leaving me not being able to keep on top of the washing, I don't know how to stop her from doing this but it's driving me nuts!!!! My 6 yr old dd does nothing but hit her younger sister when she doesn't get her way and in turn leads to her retaliating which then causes a massive fight!!!! I'm so sick of wasting my breath talking to them and getting no where that now I hardly take notice to what's going on. Just now I have asked dd1 to pick all her coloring in pages up off the floor in the lounge room and she has now walked Away and left them there !!!! Grrrrrr.... We are living with the in laws at the moment and this just doesn't help !!! I can't discipline them without mil picking them up or conforting them cause they are crying... I have tried numerous times to tell her that she can't do that when they have just gotten in trouble for doing wrong but then I turn out to be the bad guy!! Half the time now I just walk away from it all , she threatens to smack their bum when they are doing wrong but never follows through with this threat which in turn I know leads to why the never listen!! Im just sooo tired of it all and somedays just feel like spending the day hiding in the bedroom and not having to deal with any of it. I have my hands full with our 12 month old son who has just started walking and climbs on anything and everything that will give him leverage to higher places!! It drives me nuts,all I ask of them is to behave and follow instructions that they are given!!!