I find this thread so distasteful. I might be a cynic, but to me it seems like a man trying to prove he's somehow worth YET ANOTHER chance by attempting to get a bunch of women onside, some of which know the woman he screwed over far more many times than could reasonably be forgiven.
I dunno, maybe public apologies work - but just because you're willing to say it in front of a group doesn't make it anymore sincere than saying it privately - in fact, I think I'd be incredibly embarrassed if my ex, one who had treated me with such disrespect and unfair cruelty, invaded the online space I considered to be a bit of a sanctuary.
It's surely also distasteful to explain to a bunch of women how much you love your wife, when clearly your actions have proved otherwise. If she wants to give you a chance, she will... but why the need to publicise this? Be a man and prove it with actions - not by declarations of love on an internet forum.
I hope the woman in concern feels comfortable here on the hub after this, and I hope that she feels free to make the best decision she can for her, regardless of a single thread on a forum.