I'm 9 weeks and feel like total crap my hips are really sore, my stomach is hugely bloated, I have bad reflux, I need to pee all the time and I jut feel generally un well an yuk... Is this normal???? I don't remember things being this bad with my first pregnancy especially this early on but Iam quite a bit heavier this time around due to gaining alot of weight after getting thyroiditis after my son was born. Could all this be because I'm over weight? This was a very un planned pregnancy in fact I really really did not want to get pregnant till I lost all this weight but the contraception we were using didn't work and so now here I am. I feel so angry I never thought I would have an un planned pregnancy and really feel like I don't want to be pregnant. Then I feel like how could I think this when there are so many people out there who can't have kids and would love to be pregnant.. Ugh what's wrong with me . Any advice from anyone who has been through any of this would be great.