I found out a few days ago that I'm pregnant for the 3rd time this year (I'm 4 weeks, 5days today)
I had a miscarriage in August at 5 weeks 3 days
Another miscarriage in October at 8 weeks 4 days
With each of our losses I had not announced the pregnancies just in case I had to unannounced then if anything was to go wrong fearing it would be too painful to do so. BUT this left me to suffer in silence. Our family members and friends have no idea what we've been through and I'm not sure if it's too late to tell them what happened any way.
My partner is completely against announcing this pregnancy at least until I start showing at around the half way point. This is leaving me to feel as though if this pregnancy were to go wrong like the others we would again be suffering in silence with no one knowing what's going on and what we are going through.
So I am feeling as though I want to tell everyone this time and if the worst happens then I can tell everyone what's happened and then at least my family is aware of our horrible experiences rather than sitting back and being none the wiser to our struggles and heart ache. I figure maybe if I tell them something along the lines of "hey, guess what we are pregnant again! We aren't sure what's going to happen with this pregnancy - we've already lost two this year but we are just letting you know that we are indeed pregnant again so you know what's going on"
What do you think I should do, announce or not?