Dogs can have bits people have penis and vaginas
I use proper names for anatomy and so does my DD. Nothing to be ashamed of.
I use fandangle a lot but that's cause it's a running joke with friends and a habit. I tell dd to leave her fandangle alone. But I call a penis a penis
It's very important to use the correct terminology. I've come across a child abuse case similar to what Loving6 mentioned, and there were huge issues because the little girl called it something else.
As for words in this forum, I substitute them to make them less googable.
Hmm.. undecided what we will do.
I think we will use proper names for things, as I agree with PP who have said that it's just a matter of fact thing. I also hate some 'cutesy' or coy nicknames for parts of the body.
However, at the moment I don't really think I use any words at all to describe those parts! I was explaining to a friend about the progesterone pessary I have to have, and she asked where it went so I kind of gestured and said "up" in a telling way... I think I'm a big fan of the expression that says it all...
But that's for adults, so when I need to talk about it then I think I will use proper names for DD.
I say 'prawn' on BH because it makes me laugh. I'm easily amused.
DP learnt the proper names for things, because Im a pretty brutally honest person.
I always forget to change the spelling of p*rn on here (I remembered just then! lol). It's done to make sure it doesn't come up in a search, and that's fine by me.
I use real words. We also use silly words from time-to-time, but mostly the real words. DD is taught real words first... she hears the silly words too sometimes, and knows what they are, but generally uses the real words (she uses 'gina rather than vagina sometimes... when she was little she couldn't say vagina and it's kinda stuck).
I use "dirty words," when we're being dirty though... lol.
I forget too wish it did it for me and when I do I have to fight auto correct :/
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