Where does one womans heart begin finding the right words that will appeal so well to another womans heart, that they choose to donate their gift of donor eggs to a woman they have never met ? I am terribly humbled that there are these amazing and compassionate women out there that are this giving....i guess they know the infinite happiness a baby can bring and how a child can turn a loving couple into a loving family.
Paul & I met 5 years ago & with his first hug I knew he was something special and the years have proven how right my instincts were. Right from the start we were both passionate about having our own children and giving Pauls two teenage girls a little brother or sister to adore and love. Hence from early days we started planning much of what we did around preparing for a little one to be born into our lives.
Fortunately we are both in good health and Paul has a career path that enables him to provide for all of us comfortably, plus the one or two children we hope to bring into our lives as soon as we possibly can. Our hearts, our lives and our home have long been ready to welcome little ones into our home !
Paul has been through so much personal stress and incredibly challenging times these past four years, and im awe of him for handling these dark times with grace, compassion for others, selflessness and ethics, even when easier paths could have been chosen. It was heartbreaking to us both to be forced to put IVF plans on hold for 4 very long years, every day we were unable to do something constructive about bringing our much longed for child into the world was some days quite crippling. These times are now behind us, and needless to say our commitment to each other as a couple is strong and unbreakable and we are very excited to be starting down the path of bringing a beautiful child into the world.
Although we live in Brisbane, our fertility specialist is Dr Kee Ong at the Monash IVF Clinic on the Gold Coast, Qld and we seek a donor angel in the Brisbane, Gold Coast or surrounding SE QLD areas, preferably between the ages of 21 & 35.
We would respect a donors preferences for privacy if they wished, to the nth degree and are happy to oblige to our donor angels' comfort level of remaining anonymous, or being very welcome in our lives as a friend and special Aunty.
Any child born into our lives would enjoy plenty of cousins, aunts & uncles and grandparents on both sides as well as the love and bubbly excitement of Paul’s 19yo & 17yo daughters who will be ecstatic to have a baby brother or sister to spoil and cuddle.
We enjoy living life to the full and try to mix up the usual adventures and routines a little by giving things a go that we have never done before. We both have had rich, loving childhood and adult years full of fun experiences such as horseriding, camping, bikes, pets, family trips, ballet (me not Paul!), naval cadets, piano and other instruments, sports at both high competitive and social fun levels, some of which we now enjoy doing together. We both have many long held friendships from school and Uni days that are still enjoyed today and we love meeting and getting to know new people.
Fortunately we are both in excellent health, are active & outdoors some days and quiet and domestic on others or a mix of both if we are away on holiday or for the weekend. We consider ourselves happy, positive, warm and caring people and besides loving all the fun stuff in life we strongly believe in facing our responsibilities, not letting our fears hold us back (well not for too long anyway), patiently chipping away at challenges until we succeed, and in living by morals and ethics that treat others compassionately and always doing the right thing even when others don’t or when noone is looking. We both laugh a lot, sing poorly (Paul can sing Old Man River with his deep voice beautifully or any Cold Chisel songs....but is woeful at anything that doesnt call for a deep gravelly voice - and i must be tone deaf !) as well as all the active outdoors things we enjoy we also love quieter pursuits with good books on the shelf to read, time in the garden, photography with lots of family photos on the wall, music playing around us, our two furbabies, the sounds of friends and family in our home and the smells of good home cooking. All enriching things we are excited and looking forward to sharing with and passing on to our future sons or daughters.
If ever you wish to know more, please feel very welcome to write to either or both of us at firstname.lastname@example.org
Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for reading the above, we know that we are no more deserving than others here and our story is no more special than any one elses, but we hope that soon a generous lady finds she is able to help us start our longed for family.
I hope any donor angel reading thru this and considering offering their precious gift of eggs to us will now feel as though they know us a little better and is more at ease with getting in touch.
Kindly and in much much excited anticipation
Caroline and Paul